Reflection of the day.

I have found that those friends that can't be there for you when your time of trial comes; it is a reflection on them , not you. It means they are not stable enough to support you. You are not unstable, when your world is shaken you should be able to lean on those who love and care. If they can't be there for you, when their life trial comes, they will fall apart with no one there to catch them when they fall. We will all have trials and times of hardship, it is then the true character of those around you is revealed. When all is well, that is the time for us to work on our "firm foundation" of character so we are strong when others need us, but also that we won't have far to fall when our time of brokenness and weakness arrives; and it will arrive. There is a time for everything.